How Can You Believe It?

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How Can You Believe It?

23
Aug,2013

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Earlier, we saw that changing our actions and behavior, changed the results we were getting.  That’s easier said than done.  Oh, we can change our actions for a short period of time without too much difficulty.  The question is, how do we change our behaviors and actions, on a long-term, or even a permanent basis?

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To achieve Peak Performance, and world-class success, we must attack the cause, instead of trying to fix the effect.  We must eradicate the disease, and not just treat the symptoms.  Our results, in any area in life, are mere symptoms of the disease of our beliefs.  What!?  As a coach, I can tell exactly what a client believes, simply by looking at their results, and the behaviors/actions, they practice day in and day out.    We all take action, and behave, based on what we believe.  For example, I believe that cars and trucks can hurt me badly, therefore, I always look both ways before I cross any street.

In between our beliefs, and our actions, are a few contributing factors, our feelings and our attitudes.  We act a certain way based on how we feel about something, and our feelings come from our attitude about that thing.  BC (before Corps), I was fat and very unfit.  My actions, of eating chips and laying on the couch, were activities (or lack thereof) that I felt very good about, or more accurately, made me feel good and comfortable.  I had a bad attitude about physical activities and vegetables, and I didn’t feel good and comfortable running, and eating healthful foods.  My Drill Instructors, quickly changed my attitude, which eventually changed my feelings, my actions, and finally my results.

But my Drill Instructors added one last piece to the puzzle.  They changed my beliefs, about fitness and nutrition, permanently.  How? They changed my programming, they brain-washed me.  The changed how I viewed myself.  I entered Paris Island, viewing myself as the fat kid that always got bullied. I exited, a lean, green, fighting machine.   They accomplished this by changing the language I used about myself.  Each night before lights out, we would stand at attention in front of our racks (bunks, for the army-minded amongst us).  The Drill Instructor would give the command to get into the rack, when this happened the entire platoon would say the following “affirmation” or program about ourselves,

“Devil Dog, Shock Troop, Blood-sucking War Machine, Ready to Fight, Ready to Kill, Ready to Die, but Never Will!”

Gruesome? Maybe, but they were training professional warriors, the ones who run towards the guns, not away from them. The ones who close with, and destroy the enemy, by fire and maneuver, so that our fellow citizens, and their children, can sleep soundly.  Was it effective? Well, after 28 years, that “program” is still running so strongly, I can still quote it, and my behavior certainly shows it. (Ask my wife! Hah!)

Brain-wash yourself.  Write out a” program” of how you want to see yourself, and say it every night at lights out.

Boo Yah!

2 Comments so far:

  1. Tara says:

    Hi Andrew,

    Love reading your posts everyday. Mental Toughness is a fantastic topic and I am really enjoying the challenging perspectives that have been waiting to awaken in my consciousness (to misquote Gibran).

    I have a question on something that you have mentioned a few times, about being the fat kid who hated running BC who became this fit lean machine who loves running. How does one get there without the drill sarges pushing your limits day in and day out. I am overweight and really want to get into running (which I actively dislike at present).
    As much as I would love to join your seminars and lectures, its not possible at the moment as I live in South Africa and although a visit to the States is on the bucket list…

    So how do you learn to become your own drill sarge?

    Thanks for the awesome reads and keep at it!

    Tara

  2. Andrew Wittman says:

    Hey Tara! Thank you so very much for reading and also for commenting. My mentor and business partner, Steve Siebold, had a book call “Die Fat or Get Tough”. It’s a great launching pad to becoming your own drill instructor. You can get it here: http://www.diefatbook.com/
    Also, go to the Contact page and send me your contact info. Boo Yah!!

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